I have seen several stories about the girls at
Bingham High School being denied entrance to the Homecoming Dance last weekend. The girls' attire was deemed as inappropriate according to school dress code. As a result, on Monday, students walked out of class in protest to the school's strict enforcement.
I also heard about this on the radio morning shows, and on Fox 13. This article was taken from everybody's favorite family online news source, KSL. It was reported that the girls felt that the dress standards were too strict and not equally enforced. The dress code required that the dresses cover the chest and
back at the armpit, and the hemlines could not be
higher than mid-thigh when seated.
When girls attempted to enter the dance, they were stopped, evaluated for modesty and dress code conformity, and then either admitted to the dance, or told to go home to change. If they were able to meet the standards they were welcome to come back to the dance. The administration is reporting that before the dance they had an assembly about the future enforcement of dress code for the dance, sent home emails, and even passed out fliers. An interesting note is that the article included a plug for a business that sells inserts for dresses, which makes them modest enough for dance dress standards.
So the question is, if everyone knows about the rules and chooses not to follow them, then who is responsible for the girls not being allowed entrance to the dance? I think that because the school explicitly informed the students and parents about the future dress code enforcement that it was the responsibility of the parents and students to adhere to the expectations. I think that because parents are allowing their girls to wear clothes that they know are not accepted by the school's dress code, that they are antagonizing the situation. The rules apply to everyone and the mindset that "the rules do not apply to me" is part of the problem with the entitled attitude that some youth have today.
This article did not seem entirely cogent. It was fallacious due to the fact that both sides of the issue weren't thoroughly discussed. It leaned more towards the school and the ample heads up they provided students and parents. Furthermore, it also discussed an option that the students had available to them to allow them entry into the dance by purchasing modesty inserts for their choice of clothing. It seemed one-sided.